“When is the right time during pregnancy to contact a midwife?”

As soon as the pregnancy is confirmed, it is advisable to contact a midwife – to discuss the path ahead. The sooner, the easier. However, there is no ‘too late.’

“I have countless pregnancy and childbirth guides at home. Should I read them all?”

Please don’t! Too much information can be overwhelming. It’s better to follow my ‘What-You-Can-Do-For-Yourself’ list. In the childbirth preparation course, which you should attend between the 28th and 34th week of pregnancy, you will learn everything important about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.

“I always wanted children, but I was surprised by the pregnancy and couldn’t be happy at first. Will that harm my child?”

You should know that you’re not alone with these feelings! Many pregnant women feel the same way. The fact is: Only two out of ten children are planned. The rest just ‘happen.’ Luckily, pregnancy lasts nine months – during this time, you can adjust to the baby. This means it won’t harm the baby if you need time to grow into the joy and welcome them.

“My partner seems to be struggling with the changes in my body…”

Pregnancy brings major changes to both body and partnership. It’s important to keep communicating. As a midwife, I also feel responsible for translating your feelings and communicating them to your partner.
Most partners just want one thing: for you to be well and happy. That’s why I strongly recommend that your partner attends the childbirth preparation course, where they’ll learn how to support you during pregnancy, birth, and beyond.

“Can I change my mind about where to give birth, for example from a home birth to a hospital birth?”

Feeling unsure is completely normal! You’ll discover the best place for the birth during the pregnancy and through conversations with your midwife. There isn’t only one ‘right’ way. The way is right when you feel comfortable with your decision. Don’t worry: You always have all the options. Nothing is set in stone. Birth is a dynamic process. A woman who plans to give birth in a hospital may decide to give birth at home – and vice versa. What’s important is to stay flexible – and act accordingly.

“And if it becomes necessary to seek medical assistance?”

I work closely within a broad network of specialists, including gynecologists, pediatricians, osteopaths, and physiotherapists. Should their assistance be required during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum, I can activate this network immediately.

“Is a water birth or birth using a birthing stool possible?”

Absolutely. However, keep in mind that only during labor will you truly know what feels best for you. It’s very possible that you imagine a water birth will be perfect for you—only to realize during labor that water isn’t where you feel most comfortable. You always have the option to try various birthing methods during contractions.

“Do we need to remodel our home if we plan for a home birth? Will we need special equipment?”

No need to worry; a birth requires only a few square meters. The midwife brings all the necessary medical equipment. Where you ultimately give birth will be decided as labor progresses. A source of warmth is essential—after all, we don’t want mother or baby to feel cold. As for other items like sheets or a basin, you likely already have them at home. And rest assured, your home won’t need renovation after a home birth—no extra cleaning is required either. It’s far less effort than planning a future birthday party for your little one!